What if sex was a game? What if sex was a joyride full of twists and turns? What if sex was permission for you to completely surrender to your fantasies and be surprised by where they led you?

Someone with a Kinky Erotic Blueprint type has the amazing ability to turn sex into playtime. They know that the imagination is a gateway to erotic expression. They love to test the limits of pleasure and the thrill of taboo turns them on.

The idea of doing something a little bit naughty is highly arousing to someone with this Blueprint. Of course, what qualifies as “naughty” is different for everyone. Kinky isn’t defined by any specific act, it’s about an individual’s experience of their unique sexuality.

How do you know if you are a Kinky Blueprint?

Fantasy is key for someone with this Blueprint type. They enjoy creating and enacting different scenarios that bring them pleasure. They relish a high degree of intensity during sex, whether that comes though testing psychological or physical boundaries.

The intensity that they crave might come from physical sensations, psychological challenge, or dominant and submissive role play. They might like all of these things layered together at the same time. There are so many possibilities, which is part of the fun.

Do you like to play to the edges? If so, you might be a Kinky Blueprint. Take the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Quiz to find out your Blueprint type. Don’t forget to check out the other Blueprints, particularly if your partner is a different Blueprint.

What is awesome about this Blueprint

One of the things that makes this Blueprint great is that these are the people who are not afraid to get creative and try new things in the bedroom. They love to experiment and each play session is a new adventure.

Someone with a Kinky Blueprint has the ability to take the reins and mould their sexual experiences into exactly what they want them to be. When they are educated about the safest ways to play in their blueprint, they can communicate their desires with others so they get exactly what they want.

Sex is very exciting for this Blueprint. Each scene can be a new way to play and the possibilities for pleasure are limitless.

Feeding the Kinky Blueprint

When someone with a Kinky Blueprint learns about their desires and embraces their kinky side, they can open up to a new world of freedom through their sexuality. This acceptance and feeding of their Blueprint is how they celebrate their playful and edgy nature, which makes life more exciting both in the bedroom and beyond.

Feeding the Kinky Blueprint starts with getting to know your body and what thrills you. There are a lot of different ways to test these waters. Take your time and find out what you like.

It can be fed with different tools and toys that initiate a variety of sensations in the body. You can play with ropes, paddles, floggers or any other items that feel exciting.

Another way to feed the Kinky Blueprint is through costumes and lingerie that enhance the element of fantasy. You can take this in any direction that you want, which is part of the thrill. This can get really fun!

It’s important to note that feeding it with a partner should always involve a clear and direct consent conversation. Knowing where the boundaries are when playing in the Kinky Blueprint is essential to the safety and pleasure of all involved.

Shadows of the Kinky Blueprint

There are a lot of stereotypes floating around about the Kinky Blueprint. Those that don’t understand it might simplify it as getting pleasure out of feeling pain, or getting pleasure from inflicting pain on others. In truth, the Kinky Blueprint is more complex than that and someone who has not fully embraced their kinky might have some shame around their desires that come from these stereotypes.

One challenge for someone with a Kinky Blueprint is to let their guard down and not only accept their sexuality, but learn to fully welcome what turns them on without judgement. Embracing the Kinky Blueprint is a journey to loving yourself and can be very healing.

Since the Kinky Blueprint enjoys the excitement of taboo and game play, they may become reliant on their particular kinky path to pleasure and get bored or shut down if it isn’t available to them.

Expanding your Blueprint

If you want to further explore the Kinky Blueprint, you are in for a treat. There are a lot of different doors to open and there is definitely something for everyone who is ready to learn.

You can begin by indulging your fantasies. Give yourself full permission to let your mind take you to places that feel like pleasure. Then, you can bring them to life and have fun!

An easy way to expand your Kinky Blueprint is to take a class and learn about something that excites you. There is a lot of information online about how to safely play with ropes and sensation toys. There are experts who specialize in helping people learn how to engage their Kinky Blueprint through role play and scene creation.

If the Kinky Blueprint is unfamiliar territory for you, make sure that you are exploring in a way that feels good. It’s fun to push the edges, but it’s important to go at a pace that feels comfortable to you and allows you to maximize your pleasure.

Want to know more?

If you are ready to embrace your kinky, playful, and edgy side my Unstuck Your Sex course is the perfect playground. In the course, you will celebrate what makes you unique and take full ownership of what turns you on.

Find out what happens when you play full out! Your ticket to a life full of excitement and edgy pleasure is waiting for you.